Confused

Never done two posts in one day before, but I have a lot on my mind.
In church we talked about God's love for us. I understand that he loves me, but I don't feel it like Pastor Naeem does. How is it possible that I can believe in Christ and that he is my savior and understand how God wants me to live, but not feel like he truely loves me that much. I've never had a vision or revelation given to me for verification. I don't like to question God, but in the middle of service, the enemy actually had the audacity to tourment me and get thoughts going in my head of wheather or not God really does care.
He says " well if you don't have an experience like Naeem, then he must not love you that much"
I don't even know who Jesus is really. I know of him and I believe in him, but I don't know him.
What do I need to do in order to form this bond that Naeem talks about. I want that so desperately. I want to know that God loves me so much and stop running to other people to fill the void that I am feeling from not knowing the extent of his love. So how do I do this. I can read the Bible over and over and still not feel it. I gain wisdom yes, but love no. I must be wired wrong. Any insight is appreciated. Please tell me that I am not the only one who feels this way!